Here at In Pure Spirit we reached out to Samantha at needapsychic.co.uk rather optimistically. With our fingers crossed we asked whether she would be kind enough to compose a guest post for the site – we were especially keen that Samantha would be willing to write us something about the use of Skype and psychic medium readers.
Samantha is a full time psychic and we’re very lucky to have both her time and her expertise for this post.
Psychic Medium Readings over Skype: What to expect.
I wanted to write today about how to achieve the best from your readings. So many people are now turning to me for spiritual guidance that I feel it is important for you to know that you are able to improve the quality of your own readings. However as I always say to my clients, the messages given will be what you need to hear or know right now in life, not necessarily what you want to hear!
Firstly, I would say don’t pay out for a reading unless you feel you really need one, there is an anniversary of a passing, a birthday or you are just feeling completely drawn. When this happens it is because spirit have something they wish to share with you. Readings that serve a purpose rather than those that are simply to fill in time are always far more productive.
I also advise people not to beg and plead for a certain deceased relative to come through as this neediness is a negative energy and can in fact make the linkage difficult to achieve. Relax. Know that the best person for your situation will step forward whoever they are.
So how should you prepare yourself?
Well, I always say allow your intuition to lead you to the right reader. Go to the one that you feel drawn to rather than let price and availability make your decision for you. Decide before making the call the area of life that you would like to initially focus on, this helps the reader to achieve a stronger link with your own energy and relax.
I like to work to a question such as ‘what is coming up for me in my intimate relationships?’ or ‘why am I going through this particular situation?’.
Make sure you wont be disturbed during the reading and switch off your phone and any music you have playing. This is to allow the energy to flow beautifully between you and the reader.
Skype is a wonderful way to get a reading whether it is through skype chat or skype text but when using skype chat please remember that the reader is using your voice to empower his or her link to the spirit world.
Which moves me on to how to ‘behave’ to get the best out of your readings. Many people think that by remaining silent or not letting on if the medium is giving correct information that they are being clever some how. As if it is their role to test the medium.
I can understand that some people are looking for the proof but I must point out that this kind of behaviour actually is negative and creates a block. A wall as it were which can make it difficult for the medium to connect on your behalf. You are hindering the reading.
To get the best reading possible I suggest that you always tell the medium the area of life that you are looking for guidance on, don’t give the details, just the area and say yes that makes sense to me or no or not exactly, you see the medium needs to recognise if he or she needs to strengthen the link or tell Spirit to communicate clearer.
Spirit often talk in code so that the reader does not know the ins and outs of your life and therefore without your guidance they will unable to get the full message through. So, what we need to achieve the best reading is you focused on your question, undisturbed and relaxed. Nice positive energy and open body language to allow the energy to flow.
The reader is going to form a link with your energy and then use your energy to connect with those is spirit linked to you so a minute or two may be needed at the beginning of the reading whilst this is carried out.
During the reading a lot of readers will use cards or runes initially to help focus the energies. This is done so that they are able to get to the heart of the matter. So don’t be surprised if the reader asks you to say when to stop shuffling the cards and you may be asked to pick left, middle or right as they cut the pack into three sections for you to choose. The best way is to give the first answer that comes into your head.
Allow yourself to be guided also. Usually your reader will give you some information and then wait for a response, this is because there is the need for clarity and acceptance of the message before spirit will give the next bit of information. So please respond, especially when carrying out the reading through chat, loving, positive energy is much more productive and will ensure that you get a far better reading than if you are defensive.
A good medium is never judgmental. Finally, I would like to say relax, enjoy and remember that the words are a gift to you from spirit but as in all things in life, there is free will, and it is ultimately your choice how to live and what to do in the situations you are in, in the end.
Love and blessings,
In Pure Spirit
If you would like to contact Samantha and arrange for an expert psychic medium reading then pay a visit to needapsychic.co.uk.